Endearing, painful, powerful, sweet, dreadful, magical... what other
adjectives can you use to describe the feeling humanity cannot do without? You
guessed right, I'm talking of love. Irrespective of your thoughts about
romantic love, here are some science-backed facts about it.
1. Falling in love makes you less productive. According to
researcher Henk van Steenbergen, "high levels of passionate love of
individuals in the early stage of a romantic relationship are associated with
reduced cognitive control." As a result of being consumed by thoughts of
one's love interest, one becomes less able to concentrate and perform tasks
efficiently. "It could be that the obsessive nature of passionate
love imposes important constraints on performing well in tasks that require
self-control," added Steenbergen. This means your brain will be
unable to focus on other things if it's consumed by thoughts of love.
2. Falling in love is chemically addictive, as addicting as
consuming cocaine or nicotine. Both affect the brain in similar ways,
triggering a similar sensation of euphoria. "Intense passionate love uses
the same system in the brain that gets activated when a person is addicted to
drugs," explains Arthur Aron, a psychologist at the State University of
New York at Stony Brook.
3. Obsessive Compulsive Disorder - an anxiety disorder - and
romantic love in the initial stages are very similar in nature. The low levels
of serotonin - a neurotransmitter - a person develops after falling in
love result in the obsessive-compulsive behaviors associated with infatuation.
4. Research shows that when seeking long-term relationships,
men will choose a pretty face over a pretty body; and for short-term
relationships, they will choose a pretty body over a pretty face. Jaime Confer, co-author of the revealing study, titled Attractiveness in Short-Term Versus Long-Term Mating Contexts says "Men's priorities shift depending on what they want in a mate, with facial features taking on more importance when a long-term relationship is the goal."
5. We tend to end up with people who look like us. Many
people may have told you that you and your partner look like siblings. This
goes a long way to tell you that what attracts us to a person is ourselves, the
us we see in them. Tony Little, a research fellow at the University of Stirling
in Scotland told USA Today, "When you have a face that looks
more like you, you tend to trust it more and think it looks more
cooperative."
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