The death of a loved one is
always an extremely painful thing to bear, and people of different cultures
grieve in diverse ways, some more unique than others. A typically unique way of
grieving is that of the Dani (an Indonesian tribe). Finger-cutting is a fundamental
part of grieving for women of the Dani tribe, and pertains to their women only.
According to The Globe and Mail, an estimated 250,000 Dani tribe members live
in a town named Wamena, in the extremely remote central highland area of Papua
Province. Wamena is only accessible by plane.
Upon the death of a loved one,
the top joint of one of a woman's fingers would be amputated, and smear ashes
and clay across their faces. Prior to amputation, a string would be firmly tied
to the upper half of the woman's finger for 30 minutes, to cause numbness. This
was to reduce the pain from amputating the tip. In most cases, the
responsibility of cutting off the top joint of the finger is assigned to one of
the woman's immediate family member, mostly a sibling or parent. Once the top
joint is cut off, the open wound is cauterized to prevent infection, stop
bleeding and form new stony fingertips. The amputated finger is then burned and
buried somewhere special.
According to the Dani,
finger-cutting appeases and keeps the deceased person's restless spirit away.
It also symbolizes the pain suffered after the loss of a loved one. The Dani
refer to this practice as "Ikipalin".
The practice has been banned in
recent years so young women aren't affected. It is rather common to see the
rather elderly women with finger stumps. In a similar ritual, female babies
have their fingers bitten off by their mothers. These mothers believe the
practice will guarantee their daughters long life.
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